J : Dozing?
<3 Deedles: Nah thinking
J : About
<3 Deedles: The blk community's problem
J : In totale?
<3 Deedles: Mhm
<3 Deedles: We're just a bit confused
<3 Deedles: But
<3 Deedles: More specific
<3 Deedles: An older lady I believe
<3 Deedles: At a talk or in a class
<3 Deedles: Whoever it was that told me every trend males do were to impress women
<3 Deedles: Really changed my life
J : Yeah?
J : Makes sense. Fitness
<3 Deedles: They were undoubtedly correct
<3 Deedles: Most kids have no interest in gangsta culture
<3 Deedles: Outside of looking cool
<3 Deedles: Males look cool for women
<3 Deedles: Its basic mating
J : Mmhm
<3 Deedles: There's a couple problems
<3 Deedles: One women don't know this concept and would never accept it as a general truth
<3 Deedles: Becauses then males would be unaccountable for actions (which they should be either way)
<3 Deedles: A scary thing abt gen under us
J : Hmmm
<3 Deedles: Blk males
<3 Deedles: That homies ova hoes syndrome is gospel
<3 Deedles: Two reasons
<3 Deedles: A they learned to love what accepts them (self determination)
<3 Deedles: B gay males are glorified by women of recent gens (a much bigger influence than people realize on their future mate selection)
<3 Deedles: Because the diff is, at one time
<3 Deedles: They were glorified as relatable to women
J : Interesting @ B
<3 Deedles: Now they're glorified as idealistic males
<3 Deedles: (This is often because stereotypical gay males kiss ass as much as they are extremely blunt)
<3 Deedles: For instance
<3 Deedles: Young blk males in skinny dancing in circles isn't gay
<3 Deedles: Its tribal bonding
<3 Deedles: Its their idea of comfort in ones skin, it breeds a discontempt for women
J : So society has reemasculated ther black man. This time going for *man* not *black*
<3 Deedles: Lol which of course some women misinterpret as rebelious
<3 Deedles: And Just like the homphobic ultra black gangstas they are now a trend to seek fem attn
<3 Deedles: Yes
<3 Deedles: If I'm honest
<3 Deedles: Say I'm not Lee, the package I am
<3 Deedles: Avg blk male
<3 Deedles: Looking in mirror
<3 Deedles: I gotta love myself first yea?
J : Mmhm
<3 Deedles: Who shares my similarities?
<3 Deedles: Other avg blk males
J : Mmhm
<3 Deedles: Blk women don't Need blk men to Be successful
J : Sadly
<3 Deedles: Or we would be more so
<3 Deedles: I can't name another race that works that way
<3 Deedles: No yt men successful? Even the fiercest yt feminist would say that's a problem
J : Do u agree w notion integration ruined black comm
<3 Deedles: No
<3 Deedles: Only temporarily
<3 Deedles: Blk wall street n such
<3 Deedles: Not possible long term
<3 Deedles: We had no real jurisdiction
<3 Deedles: Or wealth
<3 Deedles: We had unity, but viewing white as right was more the cause than blks mixing with whites
<3 Deedles: That nas line I quoted in owl article, is one of my fave lyrics in any genre
J : Bc of our unique *transition* to America a sense of home, communially wasn't there though
<3 Deedles: Another life changer
<3 Deedles: Abt us being the teenagers of the world
<3 Deedles: Teens are rebelious identity searchers
<3 Deedles: We aint grown yet
<3 Deedles: A half century in existance and look how dominating we are in scale
J : Mmhm
J : Pause
<3 Deedles: I think parents need to find a way to create a blended mentality
<3 Deedles: Save all this
J : In age we may be teenagers, but developmentally...how old are we?
<3 Deedles: Teens
J : I don't think so
<3 Deedles: 16? On the cusp of adulthood
<3 Deedles: Send me this stuff btw
J : I'd put us @ early childhood...struggling with autonomy and looking to identify...looking for models. See erikson stage 2 and freud anal stage. And I will.
J : I think we don't know who/what to be.
<3 Deedles: I don't disagree my skept is
J : What is a successful black man
<3 Deedles: I honestly don't believe the world will be around a long time
<3 Deedles: Or currently defined civilization
I dont remember how I answered that last question...lol, pretty sure I fell asleep...more soon....
<3 Deedles: Nah thinking
J : About
<3 Deedles: The blk community's problem
J : In totale?
<3 Deedles: Mhm
<3 Deedles: We're just a bit confused
<3 Deedles: But
<3 Deedles: More specific
<3 Deedles: An older lady I believe
<3 Deedles: At a talk or in a class
<3 Deedles: Whoever it was that told me every trend males do were to impress women
<3 Deedles: Really changed my life
J : Yeah?
J : Makes sense. Fitness
<3 Deedles: They were undoubtedly correct
<3 Deedles: Most kids have no interest in gangsta culture
<3 Deedles: Outside of looking cool
<3 Deedles: Males look cool for women
<3 Deedles: Its basic mating
J : Mmhm
<3 Deedles: There's a couple problems
<3 Deedles: One women don't know this concept and would never accept it as a general truth
<3 Deedles: Becauses then males would be unaccountable for actions (which they should be either way)
<3 Deedles: A scary thing abt gen under us
J : Hmmm
<3 Deedles: Blk males
<3 Deedles: That homies ova hoes syndrome is gospel
<3 Deedles: Two reasons
<3 Deedles: A they learned to love what accepts them (self determination)
<3 Deedles: B gay males are glorified by women of recent gens (a much bigger influence than people realize on their future mate selection)
<3 Deedles: Because the diff is, at one time
<3 Deedles: They were glorified as relatable to women
J : Interesting @ B
<3 Deedles: Now they're glorified as idealistic males
<3 Deedles: (This is often because stereotypical gay males kiss ass as much as they are extremely blunt)
<3 Deedles: For instance
<3 Deedles: Young blk males in skinny dancing in circles isn't gay
<3 Deedles: Its tribal bonding
<3 Deedles: Its their idea of comfort in ones skin, it breeds a discontempt for women
J : So society has reemasculated ther black man. This time going for *man* not *black*
<3 Deedles: Lol which of course some women misinterpret as rebelious
<3 Deedles: And Just like the homphobic ultra black gangstas they are now a trend to seek fem attn
<3 Deedles: Yes
<3 Deedles: If I'm honest
<3 Deedles: Say I'm not Lee, the package I am
<3 Deedles: Avg blk male
<3 Deedles: Looking in mirror
<3 Deedles: I gotta love myself first yea?
J : Mmhm
<3 Deedles: Who shares my similarities?
<3 Deedles: Other avg blk males
J : Mmhm
<3 Deedles: Blk women don't Need blk men to Be successful
J : Sadly
<3 Deedles: Or we would be more so
<3 Deedles: I can't name another race that works that way
<3 Deedles: No yt men successful? Even the fiercest yt feminist would say that's a problem
J : Do u agree w notion integration ruined black comm
<3 Deedles: No
<3 Deedles: Only temporarily
<3 Deedles: Blk wall street n such
<3 Deedles: Not possible long term
<3 Deedles: We had no real jurisdiction
<3 Deedles: Or wealth
<3 Deedles: We had unity, but viewing white as right was more the cause than blks mixing with whites
<3 Deedles: That nas line I quoted in owl article, is one of my fave lyrics in any genre
J : Bc of our unique *transition* to America a sense of home, communially wasn't there though
<3 Deedles: Another life changer
<3 Deedles: Abt us being the teenagers of the world
<3 Deedles: Teens are rebelious identity searchers
<3 Deedles: We aint grown yet
<3 Deedles: A half century in existance and look how dominating we are in scale
J : Mmhm
J : Pause
<3 Deedles: I think parents need to find a way to create a blended mentality
<3 Deedles: Save all this
J : In age we may be teenagers, but developmentally...how old are we?
<3 Deedles: Teens
J : I don't think so
<3 Deedles: 16? On the cusp of adulthood
<3 Deedles: Send me this stuff btw
J : I'd put us @ early childhood...struggling with autonomy and looking to identify...looking for models. See erikson stage 2 and freud anal stage. And I will.
J : I think we don't know who/what to be.
<3 Deedles: I don't disagree my skept is
J : What is a successful black man
<3 Deedles: I honestly don't believe the world will be around a long time
<3 Deedles: Or currently defined civilization
I dont remember how I answered that last question...lol, pretty sure I fell asleep...more soon....
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